Is our new generation is bad or old generation is not understanding
Mostly it is said that new generation is not obedient, they are clueless and careless. But whether it is true? Can’t it be possible that old generation does not understand their situation?
I have seen in many families that old people wants everyone to take permission from them. For father son always remain little. But why can’t he understand that his son is older now and he can take his own decision. He is married; he is working and doing all the works. Now his son is in lead role of home. Father can’t take decision in same manner when he was in lead role. Now he can only advice but if he is expecting to take control of all things then universal truth came “Expectations hurts”.
Moreover when they do some house work then other his old friends tease like “you are still doing work, what are your children do? Are you home servant?” these teasers make them feel that they must not do house work as they are retired now and it is their rest period. But is this right? Even a child do house work what he can do so why not old people. They must enjoy this life and small work like drop grandchildren to bus stop is not a big deal. Doing house work is not bad as it is their own home. These days husband wife both are working so how can they expect that their son’s wife can do all house work also. This is the main reason in Indian families for fight and argument.
Traditions are changing, old traditions are modified now. Old time was different, now those customs or traditions can’t be followed in same old manner. For example: in old days marriage rules were different. Arrange marriage was the only way. But these days children are leaving home for job in other cities or countries. They met someone and fell in love then what is wrong if that other person is of other religion, other caste or other culture. It is their life and they can handle it. But parents don’t approve due to religion. Is it right? Can’t new generation live in their own way?
I was travelling in train and met some people. One was a old person. He was complaining because he got upper berth. He was saying that I am more than 70 years old so why didn’t I get lower seat. It is rail department fault. I told him that it is online system. I reserved the seat one month back and I preferred lower seat as full train was empty that time so I got lower seat. Now you reserved only 2-3 days back so there was no lower seat available. I was right but he got offended because I cut his talk. He told him in offended voice that he worked 32 year as a teacher and I am telling him about online system. I understood that he didn’t like but I was also in mood to teach him. Because yes I know he is old but it doesn’t mean he is right in every case. He was a teacher but a history teacher and he left job more than 10 years. So how he was so sure about online system? So I argued and proved with help of online ticket and internet on my mobile that I was right. He was not happy but when he came to know that I am a CA then he felt that I can have some knowledge. This incident shows that sometime old people doesn’t want to understand.
You can’t clap with one hand. Only problem can’t be with new generation or old generation. New generation is in speed and it is their necessity also. because in this completion era if they can’t be fast then they will be left behind. Old generation must understand now they are not on driver seat they are seating with driver. So they can’t expect life car will move on their intention. They can guide with their experience but they can’t run the car as before.
- Expectations: The Good, The Bad and The Ugly (workthedream.wordpress.com)
- 5 Bad Habits You’ve Developed In Your Marriage (proudpoppasunited.wordpress.com)
- Teachers Disrespect Parents – Consider Them Criminals/Unable to Make Education Decisions for Their Children (capoliticalnews.com)
- When questions about marriage are asked to a teenager… (introducingmethegreat.wordpress.com)
- Cheney Family Values – New York Times (nytimes.com)